Joining a group conversation politely: interruptions, turn-taking, and softening words.
Vocabulary Warm-Up
Find the matching pairs of identical words. Tap a card to hear it read aloud. Click two cards to flip them.
Guess the hidden word from this dialogue. You have 6 lives.
Tap the first letter of a word, then tap its last letter (in a straight line: across, down, or diagonal) to find it.
Dialogue 2: Interrupting in a Group Conversation
• "Sorry, can I jump in?" — Most common and neutral way to enter a group conversation.
• "Wait, can I ask...?" — Politely interrupts to ask for information.
• "Go on / Go ahead" — Gives the turn back to the speaker.
• "Anyway" — Signals you're going back to the main thread after an interruption.
• "Actually" — Softens a correction or unexpected information.
• "Stuff like that" — Generalizes without giving more detail, very common in informal conversation.
Who speaks in each turn? (Ana, Ben, or Cody)
1. Ana 2. Ben 3. Ana 4. Cody 5. Ana 6. Ben 7. Ana 8. Cody
Complete the group conversation with your own information. Use the vocabulary below for ideas.
A: ...and that's when we realized .
B: Oh no, that's awful. Wait, can I ask—when was this?
A: ago.
C: Sorry, can I jump in? Did you ?
A: Eventually, yeah.
B: That's good at least. Anyway, go on—
A: Well, actually that's pretty much the whole story.
C: Wow. I like , but stresses me out.
What happened: the flight got canceled, we missed our connection, the hotel lost our reservation, my phone died, we took the wrong bus
Time (before "ago"): three weeks, a couple of days, two months, six hours, a year
Action (after "Did you"): get a refund, find another hotel, call the airline, ask for help, get some sleep
Activity (after "I like"): traveling, hiking, cooking, reading, gaming
Stressor (before "stresses me out"): traffic, deadlines, crowded places, waiting in line, last-minute changes
A: ...and that's when we realized we missed our connection.
B: Oh no, that's awful. Wait, can I ask—when was this?
A: A couple of days ago.
C: Sorry, can I jump in? Did you find another hotel?
A: Eventually, yeah.
B: That's good at least. Anyway, go on—
A: Well, actually that's pretty much the whole story.
C: Wow. I like traveling, but last-minute changes stress me out.
Match each interruption phrase with its function:
"Wait, can I ask...?" → b) Ask for specific information
"Sorry, can I jump in?" → a) Enter the conversation
"Go on / Go ahead" → c) Give the turn back
"Anyway" → d) Return to the main thread
Write your own interruption phrases for each function. Use the vocabulary below for ideas.
Enter: Sorry to interrupt, but... / Can I say something? / I'd like to add...
Ask info: Can I ask you something? / I wonder if... / Could you tell me...?
Give turn: Please continue. / Go ahead. / You were saying?
Return: As I was saying... / Back to the topic... / So anyway...
1. Sorry, can I jump in?
2. Wait, can I ask...?
3. Go on.
4. Anyway...
Repeat from back to front:
→ "Sorry, can I jump in?"
Practice "entering" at the exact moment. Listen to the dialogue and practice:
Ana: "...and that's when we realized the flight was actually canceled."
Ben: "Oh no, that's awful. Wait, can I ask—when was this?" (1-beat pause)
Your turn: "Sorry, can I jump in?" (practice entering on the beat)
Record yourself practicing the interruption timing. Don't interrupt mid-word.
Use the words: jump, ask, in, go, anyway, actually
1. "Wait, can I ask ? When was this?"
2. "Sorry, can I jump in?"
3. "Actually , go on."
4. "Anyway , that's pretty much the whole story."
5. "That's good at least. Anyway , go on—"
6. "Well, actually that's pretty much it."
Complete each interruption phrase with your own words.
Ask: What happened? / When did this happen? / How did it end?
Jump in: I have a question. / Can I add something? / I'd like to say something.
Actually: that's not quite right. / I disagree. / I think you're wrong.
Anyway: as I was saying... / back to the topic... / let's move on...
1. What happened?
2. I have a question.
3. that's not quite right.
4. as I was saying...
Put the phrases in the correct order for a polite interruption:
1. "Sorry, can I jump in?"
2. "Did you get a refund?"
3. "Go on, sorry about that."
Grammar: Interruption Structures
• "Wait, can I ask...?" — Ask permission to ask a question.
• "Sorry, can I jump in?" — Enter the conversation.
• "Go on / Go ahead" — Give the turn back.
• "Anyway" — Return to the main thread.
• "Actually" — Softens a correction.
Vocabulary: Turn-taking
Interruption Phrases
- Wait, can I ask...? Ask permission
- Sorry, can I jump in? Enter the conversation
- Go on / Go ahead Give the turn back
- Anyway Return to the thread
Softening Words
- Actually Softens a correction
- Well Pause to think
- Like Informal filler
- Stuff like that Generalize
Reactions
- Oh no, that's awful Sympathy
- That's good at least Relief
- Wow Surprise
- Stresses me out It stresses me out
Task: Write a short paragraph (5-6 sentences) about a time you had to interrupt a group conversation politely. Try to use at least 3 expressions: "Sorry, can I jump in?", "Wait, can I ask...?", "Anyway", "Actually".
My friends were talking about their trip to the mountains. Sorry, can I jump in? I asked, wait, can I ask how long the hike was? It was about six hours, someone said. Wow, I said, actually I went hiking there last year too. Anyway, go on with your story, I told them, and they continued.
Personalization & Production
Task: Write a short introduction to present yourself to someone new.
Include: your name, what you do, something you like to do, a follow-up question.
1. Hi! I'm Carlos. I don't think we've met.
2. So, how do you know the host?
3. I'm in software development.
4. What about you?
5. I like traveling to new places.
Write 5 new words or phrases from this unit that you want to start using. Then write a sentence for each one.
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Conversation Questions
Discuss these questions with a partner, a study group, or out loud on your own. Try to use the interruption phrases and vocabulary from this lesson ("Sorry, can I jump in?", "Wait, can I ask...?", "Anyway", "Actually").
- Have you ever interrupted a conversation by accident? What happened?
- How do people politely interrupt each other in your first language? Is it different from English?
- Do you find it easy or hard to jump into a group conversation? Why?
- Tell a short story about something that went wrong on a trip or at work. Have a partner practice interrupting with "Wait, can I ask...?"
- What do you usually say when you want someone to keep talking after a pause?
- Have you ever been in a conversation where people kept talking over each other? How did it feel?
- In what situations do you feel comfortable enough to interrupt someone?
- With a partner: one person tells a short story, the other practices jumping in politely to ask a question.
- What's something that "stresses you out" in daily life? Try using "actually" or "anyway" in your answer.
- Is it considered rude to interrupt someone in your culture? How does that compare to what you learned today?